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"You’re Not Self-Aware You’re Anxiously Attached. Heal It in 21 Days"

"You’re Not Self-Aware You’re Anxiously Attached. Heal It in 21 Days"

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🔥Finally stop overanalyzing your relationships, calm your nervous system, and learn what real emotional safety feels like.

💔 Right now, your love life might look like this:

You can explain your attachment style, but you still feel anxious when they pull away.
You call it self-awareness, but it feels more like self-surveillance.


You know all the terms: “avoidant,” “triggered,” “boundaries” — yet you still lose yourself trying to feel chosen.
You keep reading, journaling, and “working on yourself,” but nothing seems to stick.

You’re not broken.
You’re just trying to think your way out of something that can only be healed through embodiment.

I know, because I lived there too.💔

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My Story


💔For years, I thought being emotionally intelligent would make love work.

I could analyze every argument, track every trigger, and still end up crying alone, wondering why awareness didn’t equal peace.

I wasn’t self-aware; I was anxiously attached.

And awareness had become my form of control.

Healing started the day I stopped trying to understand everything and started feeling it instead.

When I finally learned to regulate my body, not just my thoughts, everything changed.

That’s why I created this 21-day guide: to help you stop performing “secure” and start becoming secure.

I’m ready for change

What It Is

This isn’t theory.

This isn’t another “know yourself better” workbook.

It’s a step-by-step, nervous-system-based healing plan for anxious attachers who already know why they struggle, but don’t yet know how to live differently.

For 21 days, you’ll get:

✅ A bite-sized lesson on emotional regulation, boundaries, or communication.

✅ A reflection prompt to help you uncover what’s really driving your reactions.

✅ 1–3 practical tools to help you embody what you’ve learned in real time.

Each day is simple, digestible, and designed to create real change — not just insight.

I want this

What You’ll Learn


In 21 days, you’ll:

💬 Speak your needs clearly without overexplaining.

🧠 Calm your spiraling thoughts when you feel ignored or rejected.

🩵 Set boundaries without guilt or fear.

💭 Reframe rejection so it no longer defines your worth.

🌿 Let go of control and feel safe being yourself again.

💫 Build real emotional security, the kind that stays steady even when love feels uncertain.

Who This Is For YOU

This is for you if:

✔️You understand attachment theory but still feel stuck in anxious cycles.

✔️You’re tired of chasing, overthinking, or losing yourself in relationships.

✔️You want to feel calm, grounded, and confident — no matter what someone else does.

✔️You’re ready to heal from awareness into embodiment.

This is not for you if:

🛑 You’re in an abusive relationship (please seek professional help).

🛑You’re looking for a quick fix without inner work.

🛑You’re not ready to be honest with yourself about your patterns.

I’m Ready for Change

You’re Not Self-Aware You’re Anxiously Attached: Heal It in 21 Days ❤️‍🩹


Just $47 (normally $64).

That’s less than $1,50 a day to stop overthinking, start feeling safe, and finally experience the kind of love you’ve always been working toward.🚪❤️‍🩹

I want to heal !

FAQ

Most books teach you why you feel anxious, this one teaches you how to change it.

Instead of endless theory, you’ll get 21 days of short, guided lessons that help you regulate your body, not just your thoughts. It’s not about “knowing better,” it’s about feeling safe enough to live differently.

Less than 10 minutes a day. Each lesson is short, digestible, and designed to fit easily into your routine, no overwhelm, no guilt if you miss a day. The focus is steady emotional growth, not perfection.

It’s a digital eBook (PDF format). You’ll get instant access right after purchase, so you can start healing the same day, no shipping, no waiting.

Not at all. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, the guide helps you change the patterns that create anxiety and disconnection. You’ll learn how to respond differently, with calm, clarity, and self-trust, no matter your relationship status.

Yes. The guide helps you stop reacting to your partner’s withdrawal with panic or overexplanation. You’ll learn to self-regulate, communicate clearly, and stay grounded, even when they pull away.